High potentials are sometimes brilliant students, capable of easily succeeding at school. However, this perception can sometimes mask more complex realities. Their school career can be strewn with challenges, whether they manifest themselves in associated disorders or in difficulties finding their place once studies have finished.
When associated disorders complicate the journey
For certain children with high potential, success at school is hampered by associated disorders, such as dys disorders (dyslexia, dyscalculia, etc.). These difficulties may go unnoticed for a while, especially if the child manages to compensate through his intellectual abilities. However, when these disorders are finally discovered, they may explain why certain aspects of school become more complicated than expected.
The Post-Bac transition: a moment of doubt and search for identity
Even for those who have been successful throughout their education, the transition to higher education can be a time of challenge. Some students discover that the choices they made don’t really suit them. They then find themselves faced with a dilemma: continue on a path that does not excite them or start all over again.
Questions of identity then become crucial: “Who am I really?” and “What do I want to do with my life?” These questions can be particularly marked among high potentials, used to being good at everything they do, but who suddenly find themselves out of step with their deepest aspirations.
How to overcome these challenges and find your way?
For high-potential youth and their families, it is essential to recognize that these challenges are part of the journey. Here are some ways to overcome them:
- Psychological support
Working with a psychologist or coach can help clarify aspirations and better understand obstacles. - Exploring passions
Encouraging the exploration of different passions and interests can help discover a path more aligned with personal desires. - Academic flexibility
Considering alternative studies or less conventional career paths can open up new perspectives.
Conclusion: accept and flourish in your uniqueness
High potentials have a unique path to travel, with its challenges and moments of doubt. It is important to recognize these difficulties as a normal part of the growing process. With the right support and an open approach, these young people can not only overcome these obstacles, but also flourish fully in a life that truly suits them 🌱